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How to Never Grieve the Holy Spirit


By Vladimir Savchuk | September 30, 2024 | 4 mins

How to Never Grieve the Holy Spirit

Charles Spurgeon once said, “Unholiness of life grieves the Holy Spirit.” Martin Luther added that when the Holy Spirit is grieved, men are unwilling to be judged and convicted, leading to a desperate and incurable wound.

The Holy Spirit is a person whom we can grieve with our actions. Here are a few ways that we can learn to protect our relationship with Him.

Ways We Often Grieve the Holy Spirit

Apostle Paul states in Ephesians 4:30, “Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” In Greek, the word “grieve” means to cause grief, to be in heaviness, or to throw into sorrow.

1. When We Hold On to Hurt Feelings

Ephesians 4:31 says, “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.” Holding on to hurt feelings grieves the Holy Spirit. When you nurse a grudge, it turns into bitterness and wrath, producing anger that can damage your relationship.

2. When Our Speech is Morally Rotten

Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth.” The word “corrupt” refers to something like rotten fish or fruit. Morally rotten speech includes curse words, exaggeration, half-truths, and deception. When our language becomes foul, it grieves the Holy Spirit. If you’re not careful, this grieves Him just as much as negative emotions do.

3. When We Are Rude to People

Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.” Being rude to others grieves the Holy Spirit. It’s not just what we say, but how we treat others that matter to God.

How Not to Grieve the Holy Spirit

  1. Know the Word of God
    The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of truth. Psalm 119:11 says, “Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I may not sin against You.” If you want to avoid grieving Him, hide God’s Word in your heart.
  2. Check Your Heart Against Offense
    Guard your heart regularly. Offense and bitterness can build up, creating a hardness in your spirit. Regularly examine your heart to ensure purity, especially toward your brothers and sisters.
  3. Season Your Speech with Truth and Grace
    Ensure your words are full of both truth and grace. Some speak harsh truths without grace, while others speak sweet words without truth. Both grieve the Holy Spirit. Your words should always be wholesome and honest, without deceit or exaggeration.
  4. Be Prompt to Obey
    When the Holy Spirit prompts you, obey quickly. Abraham acted promptly when God asked him to sacrifice Isaac. When you delay obedience, you risk missing the Spirit’s timing.
  5. Pray Together with the Holy Spirit
    Include the Holy Spirit in your prayers. Fellowship with Him and take time to ask Him to guide your prayer life.

The Holy Spirit wants to comfort, guide, and reveal Jesus to you. He is near, living in you. Acknowledge Him, invite Him, and let Him fill you daily. Your life can be transformed when you truly know the Holy Spirit as a Person.

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